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“Gain commitment from prospects by removing their easiest way to stay vague: the middle option. Here’s why two choices beat three, backed by real research.”
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Do you ever feel frustrated by wishy-washy answers from your prospects? You know the kind, answers that don’t give you clear direction or reveal their true intentions. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to take a page from the band Heart and “even it up.”
Let’s dive into why prospects often hold back and how you can earn their commitment without getting stuck in indecision, starting with what’s actually happening when a prospect gives you an answer that doesn’t commit to anything.
The truth is, many prospects work hard to avoid revealing their intentions to Closers.
Why? Because to disclose their true intentions is to invite persuasion or influence. Most prospects are hesitant to let their guard down, especially when they’re not ready to make a decision. This often leads them to adopt a strategy that looks something like Goldilocks’ choice, the middle option. This “middle lane” doesn’t clearly show where they stand, leaving things vague for you, the Closer.
However, this middle ground is, in fact, a form of indecision. It’s a “no decision lane.” When prospects say, “I’ll think about it” or “I’m not sure,” they are choosing to stay in that middle zone, where they are not committing either way.
So, how can you move past this uncertainty and actually earn prospect commitment? One effective technique I use is giving my prospects an even number of choices. By providing two options instead of three, you remove the middle lane altogether. When there’s no clear middle option, the prospect is more likely to make a choice that leans toward one direction. This subtle change makes the decision-making process easier for them and, importantly, helps you move closer to earning their commitment.
This isn’t just a sales trick, it’s a documented pattern in how people choose. Research by Itamar Simonson and Amos Tversky on what’s known as the compromise effect found that when people are given three options, they disproportionately gravitate toward the middle one, precisely because it feels like the safest, least committal pick. It isn’t chosen because it’s genuinely the best fit. It’s chosen because it lets the decider avoid deciding.
Take that middle option away and the safety net goes with it. A prospect who would have hidden in “the moderate plan” or “let me think about the middle tier” now has to actually weigh which of two real options serves them better. That’s the entire mechanism behind why an even number of choices helps you gain commitment from prospects: you’re not persuading harder, you’re removing the exit they were planning to use.
This isn’t limited to pricing tiers or packages either. The same compromise effect shows up in timelines (“sometime this quarter” as the safe middle answer to “this month or next quarter”), in stakeholder questions (“I’ll loop some people in” as the vague middle between “just me” and “the full committee”), and in almost any question with a comfortable, noncommittal middle answer built in. Anywhere you can identify that hiding spot, cutting it to two real options applies.
The shift from three options to two is often just a matter of how the question gets asked. “What did you think, are you looking at a few different directions?” leaves room for a vague, noncommittal answer. “Are you leaning toward moving forward this quarter, or is this more of a next-year conversation?” doesn’t.
The second version isn’t more aggressive. It’s more specific, and specificity is what actually forces a real answer instead of a placeholder one. Reps who struggle to gain commitment from prospects are often asking well-intentioned but structurally open questions that leave a comfortable middle lane sitting right there for the prospect to retreat into.
The technique only works if both options are genuinely worth choosing. If one option is obviously weaker, dressed up mainly to make the other look better, prospects tend to sense it, and you’re back to the same vague hesitation you were trying to eliminate.
Before the conversation, decide on two paths that would each be a legitimate win for you and a legitimate fit for the prospect, not a real option and a straw man. This is close to the logic behind Hoffman’s Gives and Gets® approach inside the Close The Deal™ framework: a structured exchange where the choices you present should genuinely move the deal forward regardless of which one the prospect picks. If you want another angle on structuring choices at the close specifically, Should I Offer Choices When I Close? covers a related technique for decision-makers with limited approval authority.
Cutting to two options is a strong move once you understand the prospect’s situation well enough to know what their two realistic paths actually are. It backfires when you don’t.
Early in discovery, before you’ve learned enough about the prospect’s actual constraints, forcing a binary choice can feel presumptuous rather than clarifying. If you haven’t earned the right to know what their two real options are, guessing at them and offering a false binary reads as pushy, not helpful.
It also doesn’t fit every buyer. Some prospects, particularly technical or detail-driven ones, want to see the full range of what’s available before narrowing anything down. Cutting straight to two choices with this kind of buyer can come across as withholding information rather than removing indecision, and it can cost you the credibility you need to gain commitment from prospects later in the process.
The fix in both situations isn’t to abandon the approach, it’s to sequence it correctly. Let discovery run long enough that you actually know which two paths are real, and let a detail-driven buyer see the fuller picture before you narrow it down for them. The binary choice works best as the final step of a conversation, not the opening move of one.
When you take this approach, you’re not only guiding the prospect toward a decision, but you’re also showing them that you understand their hesitation. Instead of pushing for a quick yes or no, you’re providing clarity and a path forward to earn prospect commitment.
In sales, we don’t always want to push prospects into a corner, but we do want to help them navigate their indecision. By eliminating the wishy-washy middle option, you increase the likelihood that your prospects will make a more definitive choice, and in turn, you’ll be able to earn prospect commitment more effectively.
None of this requires a script overhaul. It’s a small structural change to the questions you’re already asking and the options you’re already presenting. Look at your last few stalled conversations and check whether a comfortable middle lane was sitting there the whole time, waiting to be removed.